Please remember that someone not finding you physically attractive in no way justifies them treating you like garbage.


You do not owe it to anyone to be their physical preference.
You do not exist for everyone’s viewing pleasure.

You deserve to exist as you are and how you want to be and an idealistic bullshit standard of beauty does not validate you being treated poorly for being you.


You don’t have to justify your body.


If you’re thin, you don’t have to say ‘but I eat all the time!’/’I have a fast metabolism!’

If you’re fat, you don’t have to say ‘it’s genetic!’/’I’m trying to lose weight!’

You don’t need to explain to anybody why your body is the way it is. Your body is YOUR body, and that’s all the justification you need.